It
can be quite frustrating when a man simply retreats into his thoughts and
refuses to discuss what he's thinking of. This becomes even more unbearable
when, all of a sudden, she feels he is withdrawing from the relationship. There are reasons for
this, some of which are:
He
is bored.
Men
like to chase women, they enjoy the challenge of the hunt, they like the
adventure of it all. So when a woman becomes too available for him, when things
become too routine and predictable, he automatically becomes bored of the
relationship.
He
is choking.
No
one wants to be tied on a leash, let alone a short one so when a man cannot
have time and space for himself, when she shadows his every move, when she
wants to probe into everything he does, he starts feeling suffocated. He might
withdraw just to get a breath of fresh air.
He
is threatened.
Many
men cannot bear the thought of losing their freedom -- this is the idea they
have in their minds about commitment. Sometimes, a man withdraws for fear that
he would no longer have the freedom he so values.
Things
are moving too fast for him.
Men
and women have different time schedules when it comes to relationships. What a
woman may find as the "right time" could be "too soon" for
a man. When she is moving too fast in making something more of the relationship
than he is ready for, he might withdraw.
He
isn't ready (financially).
Although
it is now socially acceptable for women to earn as much as -- or even more than
-- men, some guys still find it uncomfortable to not be able to be financially
capable to provide for the woman. Being financially insecure is one reason why
some men withdraw from a relationship.
He
is in doubt.
A
man may find, in the course of the relationship that she isn't the one for him.
There could be some little incompatibilities or a difference in lifestyle. If,
in the back of his head, he has a nagging feeling of doubt, he may back away.
He
has fallen out of love`.
Men
can't stand women crying. A man who is sensitive enough doesn't want to
deliberately hurt a woman, and he simply doesn't have the courage to see her
shed tears. A man who wants out may try to break it to her gently by
withdrawing, giving her the chance to break up with him instead.
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